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Don’t become so passionate about your work that you forget to call your Mom or go grocery shopping.

Here’s the thing about the “bidness” world and being “passionate about your work” that the marketing fairies forget to tell you... 

And that is:

There’s more to life than "your life’s work"...

And I’m not talking about work/life balance either because we all know that does not really exist. 

I’ll just come clean and say it flat out point blank... there are other things to life than making sure you are the top selling leadership author, the best designer, or your code is perfect, or all of your clients and customers are ecstatic about you and rave to all of their friends. 

And you’re an idiot if you become so hyper focused on those things that you forget about the rest of life... Don’t get offended just yet. Because I’m that idiot too. 

Yes, I’m talking about real life stuff that you will forget about if you become so “passionate about your work” that you spend more days working until 10pm than you care to admit. 

Things like...

Not going for a run or a bike ride, or even taking  a walk and getting those 10k steps in a day. 

Or forgetting to restock your refrigerator with healthy food that you shopped for and bought yourself. 

Dropping the ball about wishing your son or daughter happy birthday. Or simply forgetting to hang out with them any of the other days for hours on end without conditions. 

Not calling your Mom, or even sending her a text message to say hi. 

Not going fishing with your Dad, or just hanging out and listening to his stories for the 100th time. 

Not reaching out to your brother or sister and saying hi and catching up. 

Not hanging out with friends. 

Not taking the time to say THANK YOU to people that have helped you along the way or contributed to your current success in the many small ways. 

Yeah yeah I know... you’re going to change the world and are making an impact. There’s just not enough time for those things. Right?

I get it. The world needs “passionate” people like us. That’s all good, just don’t let that “passion” kill the stuff that makes up a real life.

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Nathan Bray

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